Talking to Your Provider
To ensure that you’re getting the right care, it’s important to be honest with your healthcare provider about your sexual orientation and sexual behaviors. This may feel challenging if you don’t currently have health insurance or if you’re not sure if your provider is bi+ affirming. Below are a few tips that can help, and they apply not only when you’re accessing sexual healthcare, but also any other type of care related to your relationships and sex life, such as therapy, fertility, and primary care.
- If you don’t currently have health insurance, visit Out2Enroll (out2enroll.org) for information and help enrolling.
- If you’re seeking a bi+ afrming provider, ask friends in the bi+ community for suggestions. Facebook groups (like “Queer Exchange [name of major city near you]”) often have active threads for sharing experiences and recommendations. See the Resources section for additional information about fnding an afrming provider.
- Your provider should ask you about your sexual behaviors at least once a year at your physical. If you are sexually active, it is important to note the anatomy of your partner(s). It may be helpful to write down things like your pronouns, sexual orientation, or any questions you have before your appointment. Your provider can recommend the appropriate care once they’re aware of your specific situation.
- Ask your provider if birth control or STI/HIV prevention medications may be right for you.